Many wedding couples dread the possibility of rain on their special day. However, for many cultures in South Africa rain is seen as a blessing.
Some people see rain as communication from the ancestors. Rain at a wedding is their way of giving their blessings to the union.
The word “propitious” is often used in this context: the word means favourable and likely to lead to success.
We can see rain as washing away the old life and old troubles, preparing the couple for their new life together. Couples can view this symbolism in a very positive light.
We use the term “tying the knot” to describe two people coming together in this new union. Indeed, some couples have a handfasting ceremony, where they wrap their hands together with cords or ribbons. Hindu beliefs remind us that if a knot gets wet, it is even more difficult to untie, so that adds to the positive effect of rain.
Not only is rain cleansing, it also brings life. As it supports crops, so will it support the couple and add to their fertility.
No more hayfever
On practical levels, anyone who suffers from hay fever in spring and summer will welcome the rain, as it dampens down the dust and pollen in the air. No more red noses or eyes, as you make your vows sneeze-free, without having to take medication.
The flowers at the wedding will also love the rain, as they will be much less likely to wilt in the dry heat. They will continue to look fresh and lovely for much longer.
Your photos will be extra romantic in the rain. You and your photographer just have to be a bit more imaginative in your use of umbrellas.
And just imagine if, when the clouds drift away, they reveal a rainbow. There can be nothing symbolising abundance better than a rainbow. And how beautiful too!
I walk down the lane
With a happy refrain
Just singin’,
Singin’ in the rain
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